I consider myself an odd person, so when I was looking for a relationship and trying to find someone according to societal norms,I’d end up with someone “normal.”
And that’s not what I want. I want someone who is like me, someone who understands me.
When you think, “Okay, I’ve got to be like this to find somebody,” I actually feel the opposite. You’ve got to be yourself.
We are here to be ourselves—that’s our higher purpose.
The title of our process is Self I-Dentity through Ho‘oponopono meaning: Being yourself, Knowing yourself, and setting things right.
Whether it’s dating or a career, you want to be yourself because what fun is it going to be to pretend to be someone else? If you’re in a relationship and you’re not being yourself, that’s going to be hell—a real disaster and an unpleasant experience.
So, you have to find ways to be yourself. Whether it’s on a dating app or going on a date, find ways to express who you are. Show who you are because that is your highest good—that is your highest purpose.
~Momilani Ramstrum
(IZI LLC Instructor)